feat(gateway): 引入使用量记录有界 worker 池与自动扩缩容

- 新增 UsageRecordWorkerPool，支持有界队列、溢出降级策略与自动扩缩容
- 将 Gateway/OpenAI/Sora/Gemini 使用量记录改为提交到统一任务池执行
- 增加 usage_record 配置默认值与校验规则，并补充配置与任务提交相关测试
- 注入并托管 worker 池生命周期，服务退出时统一 StopAndWait

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

backend/internal/service/wire.go

@@ -300,6 +300,7 @@ var ProviderSet = wire.NewSet(
 	NewTurnstileService,
 	NewSubscriptionService,
 	ProvideConcurrencyService,
+	NewUsageRecordWorkerPool,
 	ProvideSchedulerSnapshotService,
 	NewIdentityService,
 	NewCRSSyncService,